birksd
Cyber Warrior
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Hi.
I really don't know why I am even writing this right now but I just feel lonely and scared that my parents will divorce.
My mom just told me that her husband [Not my biological father] has been unfaithful with another woman for 8 years thru some random Russian website where he had been there for so long and gifted so much money that he became some sort of moderator over the site...
They had a massive fight about this a year ago but I never understood why. My mom was broken and depressed but eventually she forgave him because she loves him.
but still from a year ago until this day my "dad" has not really paid a lot of attention to my mother.. He didn't want to sleep with her, didn't want to talk as much as before and just was an asshole without reason.
So my mother felt lonely and watched tv shows / movies to escape reality.. she also installed Tiktok cause she just didn't have anything else to do..
So she found a livestream on Tiktok with like 10 viewers but it was a small group of people that just did comedy stuff. she laughed Tiktok and then my father asked her why is she so happy in her phone? is she talking with some random stranger?, maybe another MAN???
My mom turned her phone and told him that she is just watching Tiktok ..
But she later on kept watching Tiktok and these livestreams were a way for her to escape reality and the bad situation at home. she had never laughed so much in her entire life..
my "dad" became suspicious that maybe she is talking with other men so he wanted to see her phone and go thru it just to make sure nobody was hitting on her on Tiktok or any other platform.
but my mom refused because if he doesn't trust her then why are they together.
He became mad and said "If you don't open your phone right now then it means you have something to hide, and if you have something to hide then u are unfaithful aswell"
She said that she has not done anything wrong... what's wrong with watching Tiktok and laughing at livestreams. she said that she would never be unfaithful to anyone not even to him after what he had done to her for 8 years..
She has sworn on her children and on god and everything else that she is not talking with another man and that she would never do such a thing but he refuses to believe her..
I am in the middle of this. I have tried to tell them that they are both wrong.. my "dad" should trust his wife and my mom should have shown the phone if she didn't have anything to hide..
Yesterday was my mothers birthday everyone gifted her flowers but my "dad" didn't even tell her happy birthday.. he didn't buy her anything or even look at her while it was her birthday
Guys please help. I legit have no idea how to fix this
I really don't know why I am even writing this right now but I just feel lonely and scared that my parents will divorce.
My mom just told me that her husband [Not my biological father] has been unfaithful with another woman for 8 years thru some random Russian website where he had been there for so long and gifted so much money that he became some sort of moderator over the site...
They had a massive fight about this a year ago but I never understood why. My mom was broken and depressed but eventually she forgave him because she loves him.
but still from a year ago until this day my "dad" has not really paid a lot of attention to my mother.. He didn't want to sleep with her, didn't want to talk as much as before and just was an asshole without reason.
So my mother felt lonely and watched tv shows / movies to escape reality.. she also installed Tiktok cause she just didn't have anything else to do..
So she found a livestream on Tiktok with like 10 viewers but it was a small group of people that just did comedy stuff. she laughed Tiktok and then my father asked her why is she so happy in her phone? is she talking with some random stranger?, maybe another MAN???
My mom turned her phone and told him that she is just watching Tiktok ..
But she later on kept watching Tiktok and these livestreams were a way for her to escape reality and the bad situation at home. she had never laughed so much in her entire life..
my "dad" became suspicious that maybe she is talking with other men so he wanted to see her phone and go thru it just to make sure nobody was hitting on her on Tiktok or any other platform.
but my mom refused because if he doesn't trust her then why are they together.
He became mad and said "If you don't open your phone right now then it means you have something to hide, and if you have something to hide then u are unfaithful aswell"
She said that she has not done anything wrong... what's wrong with watching Tiktok and laughing at livestreams. she said that she would never be unfaithful to anyone not even to him after what he had done to her for 8 years..
She has sworn on her children and on god and everything else that she is not talking with another man and that she would never do such a thing but he refuses to believe her..
I am in the middle of this. I have tried to tell them that they are both wrong.. my "dad" should trust his wife and my mom should have shown the phone if she didn't have anything to hide..
Yesterday was my mothers birthday everyone gifted her flowers but my "dad" didn't even tell her happy birthday.. he didn't buy her anything or even look at her while it was her birthday
Guys please help. I legit have no idea how to fix this