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Is 'not texting your friends anymore until they text you' a good or fucking dumb idea?

ZEN AKU

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wow, it's been quite a long time since I made a thread on this website...
Explanation:
I had kind of a discussion with my friend a few days ago...
I'm not going to say on which side I am, just trying to ask the question as neutral as possible:
Let's say:
You regularly text your friends on WhatsApp, Discord, or other apps but you initiate the conversation almost every time.
So, thinking "If I wouldn't text them all the time, they wouldn't give a shit about me" or some shit like that, you just stop initiating conversations (I guess lowkey hoping to get messaged by them???) to see if anything happens.
Questions:
Does that make any sense?
Is that a good idea to see who gives a fuck about you?
When someone does not text you by themself, does that mean they don't care about you???
Is that narcissistic in your opinion or is it not? Are you a clown if you're the always the one starting the conversation??
Would you do the same?
Let me know what you think.
 

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