Espii
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my long term girlfriend left me on good terms because i was 'mentally draining her'
all started when i asked if anyone had try to ask her out at a party thing that isn't really a party thing (i did not go for personal reasons) she just said she did not want to talk about it and i took it as a sign of cheating/it weirded me out
before you jump into conclusions she did not cheat she just thought it was obvious that i would no she rejected people
(several other shit made me very uncomfortable because of it involving a guy or her not being fully transparent about stuff)
but iam 100% sure she did not cheat or do anything like that the situation were just her being too friendly imo
now that i talked to her about it she went full blaming mode on how i dont trust her and this and that and basicly decided to break up the day after
i dont want to go into much detail but i want advice on how to deal with it and if you think i was wrong for doubting her love/loyalty to me
(also i think i did because of all my past relationships i got cheated on/lead on/not healty at all)
i know i lost a good one but iam not sure if its entirely my fault
upate
already replaced her its whatever dont waste time stuck in the past
all started when i asked if anyone had try to ask her out at a party thing that isn't really a party thing (i did not go for personal reasons) she just said she did not want to talk about it and i took it as a sign of cheating/it weirded me out
before you jump into conclusions she did not cheat she just thought it was obvious that i would no she rejected people
(several other shit made me very uncomfortable because of it involving a guy or her not being fully transparent about stuff)
but iam 100% sure she did not cheat or do anything like that the situation were just her being too friendly imo
now that i talked to her about it she went full blaming mode on how i dont trust her and this and that and basicly decided to break up the day after
i dont want to go into much detail but i want advice on how to deal with it and if you think i was wrong for doubting her love/loyalty to me
(also i think i did because of all my past relationships i got cheated on/lead on/not healty at all)
i know i lost a good one but iam not sure if its entirely my fault
upate
already replaced her its whatever dont waste time stuck in the past