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How to love yourself (become a better person)

VinnyT

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I notice this is a trouble with many people from ages going from 13-30. A lot of people struggle to love themselves and only do things because other people "do it". I believe life should be lived how you want and only you we have a short amount of time on Earth dont waste it.
1. Learn to love being alone
There is a mass difference when it comes to being lonely and being alone. Being lonely is a feeling when we feel we have no one to talk to, do things with. While being alone is a great thing, yes its a great to hangout with mates but you need to learn being alone is one of the best times to learn more about yourself or make some real progress on your goals.
2. Dont give into peer pressure
Peer pressure is what decides if you are a follower or a leader or the third option a lone wolf. I prefer being a lone wolf (doing what i want when i want) and not needing other peoples opinions or validation to do things. Its important when to learn to say "no im not doing that" not everyone in this world is trying to help benefit you in the long run.
3. Accept that people are assholes
People are assholes nothing more & nothing less. It is important to surround yourself with people who want to succeed and want you to succeed. People like this are hard to find because nowadays a lot of people are fake and wont give you the truth. Real friends will tell you when your idea or next venture is stupid and wont work and this is okay, you have to learn the difference between people putting you down and actually giving you valid feedback.
I hope you take this feedback because when i started doing this i started to succeed in many different aspects of my life not only the money part but every part of my life.
 

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